Pamela Custers

Pamela Custers

Registered Member MBACP (Accredited)

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Therapist - London

London SW19
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  • Flexible hours available

About me and my therapy practice

Welcome to the Relationship Practice. I run a busy psychotherapy private practice based in Wimbledon SW London. My busy practice has clients from across SW London and the UK.

I work with individuals couples and families offering counselling, couple counselling and family issues. I have worked in a number of organisations including RELATE, an Addiction Clinic, School Family service and a GP's surgery.

I have extensive experience working with individuals and couples counselling facing challenging issues. I will work with you for as long as is useful.

I also am happy to do Skype and telephone sessions for busy individuals or for those that travel.

My areas of special interest include all relationship issues, couples counselling, family issues, stress, anxiety, self-esteem, Divorce, separation, depression and affairs.

Working with couples after affairs requires a particular expertise and I have had extensive experience working with a breach of trust. Moving on after heartbreak or being single and wanting to move into a committed relationship all require a relational approach.

I have a particular interest in elite sports people and those who are constantly in the public eye.

I run a discreet practice with confidentiality assured.

Since obtaining my Master’s degree I have worked in a number of organisations including,
Addictions within a Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation Services,
Family Therapy within School Family service
and Relate where I have extensive experience in couple counselling and relationship issues.
I work on both a short term and open-ended basis drawing from both Systemic and Psychodynamic approaches.

Please call for a no obligation chat to see if I will be of help.
My clients are successful individuals who value the discreet and private practice that I offer.


My Training and Qualifications 

I have a Master’s Degree in Relationship Therapy (RELATE), a Postgraduate Certificate in Attachment Theory an Honours degree in Psychology, and a Diploma in NLP.

- MA Relationship Therapy (University of Hull)
- Post Graduate Diploma RELATE
- BA Hons Psychology (University of Cape Town)
- MBACP Accredited Member of British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists


I run two courses in personal development

Single people who wish to have a relationship 


"You and Me Together!" An on-line course of 6 conversations that build a flourishing relationship. Ideal for those who wish to have a partner who is reluctant to have couples counselling.

I have worked in both the corporate world as a trouble shooter and the film industry.


What I can help with

Addictions, Obsessions, OCD, Phobias, Self-harm, Abuse, Anxiety, Bereavement, Depression, Loss, Post-traumatic stress, Trauma, Career coaching, Development coaching, Leadership coaching, Life coaching, Personal development, ADD / ADHD, Asperger syndrome, Chronic fatigue syndrome / ME, Disability, Health related issues, Cultural issues, Identity issues, Men's issues, Self esteem, Sexual identity, Sexuality, Spirituality, Women's issues, Child related issues, Infertility, Pregnancy related issues, Relationships, Sex-related issues, Anger management, Redundancy, Stress, Work related issues

Types of therapy

Behavioural, Brief therapy, CBT, Cognitive, Creative therapy, Emotion focused therapy, EMDR, Eclectic, Family therapy, Humanistic, Integrative, Jungian, Person centred, Phenomenological, Play therapy, Primal therapy, Psychodynamic, Psychosynthesis, Relational, Solution focused brief therapy, Systemic, Transactional analysis, Transpersonal

Clients I work with

Adults, Children, Couples, EAP, Families, Groups, Older adults, Organisations, Young people

How I deliver therapy

Home visits, Long-term face-to-face work, Online counselling, Short-term face-to-face work, Telephone counselling, Time-limited