Etti Kia

I am a qualified and experienced Individual and Couple Psychodynamic Counsellor & Psychotherapist and Psychosexual therapist. I trained at Tavistock Relationships, and I work as a visiting clinician. I also host my private clients at Finchley Central Practice.

I understand that it might be hard to seek help and share thoughts and feelings about personal matters, especially about intimate relationships and intimacy. Therefore, I offer my service in a confidential and containing space, and I value differences in terms of culture, gender and sexuality.

Besides, I offer online counselling in a safe and secure setting for both individuals and couples. This service can also be used for couples residing separately from each other, even abroad.

Feel free to contact me for a chat if you need more information.

I suppose my website describes my practice clearly. There are lists of relational problems and sexual dysfunctions which can guide you to the right service. 

Psychotherapy focuses on the emotional aspect of the relationships which forms dynamics between the partners.

Psychosexual therapy is a cognitive behavioural program with specific structures. Exercise and homework will lead to treatment for sexual disorders. 

The first session is an initial meeting to see if we can work together. It lasts 50 minutes, and the fee is similar to ongoing sessions. 

It might be helpful to list issues that I can help with:

Psychosexual therapy:

• Erectile dysfunction
• Lack of sexual desire
• Arousal dysfunction
• Vaginismus
• Orgasm disorders in women and men
• Genital pain in women and men
• Ejaculation disorders

Couple Psychotherapy:

• Arguments/ conflicts in the relationship

• Affairs/ rebuilding trust

• Lack of intimacy/ sexual issues

• Change in life circumstances/ moving in together

• Marriage/ sharing mental and physical space

• Starting a family/ trying to conceive

• Understanding pregnancy and its effect on the couple

• First child/ becoming a parent

• The renewed dynamic/ family life

• Regaining sexual desire after the childbirth

• Depression/ anxiety and its effect on the couple

For individuals who seek relationship counselling:

• Inability to start dating/relationships

• Difficulty to maintain relationships

• Difficulties to make lasting, loving bonds

• Sexual issues

• Understanding sexuality/ sexual orientation

I am a qualified psychosexual therapist, experienced Individual and Couple Psychodynamic Counsellor & Psychotherapist. I trained at Tavistock Relationships, an internationally renowned charity for advanced practice, training and research to support couples, individuals and families.

I offer Zoom sessions and face-to-face sessions at Finchley Central Practice.

I understand that it might be hard to seek help and share thoughts and feelings about personal problems, sexual issues and intimacy. We might fear being judged or misunderstood. Therefore, I offer my service in a non-judgmental, friendly, confidential and containing space.

Also, I have worked with diversity in terms of cultural, gender, and sexual differences.

Feel free to contact me for a chat if you need more information.

Psychosexual therapy is a cognitive behavioural program that includes exercises. The duration of therapy depends on the issue and the severity of it. 

Psychodynamic counselling and relationship counselling are offered for all challenges related to relationships. 

Both services are open-ended, which means that the client can terminate the therapy when they wish to. However, a two-week notice is very much appreciated. 

The initial meeting is the opportunity to see if we could work together. It lasts 50 minutes and the fee is £85.