Cassandra Jay

Registered Member MBACP

Contact information

Phone number
01844 318535

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Therapist - Chinnor

Chinnor OX39
01844 318535
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  • Flexible hours available

About me and my therapy practice

I provide affordable, unbiased and confidential psychotherapy for individuals and couples in Buckinghamshire, Oxfordshire, Hertfordshire and London.

My therapeutic approach is integrative and incorporates elements of Person-centred therapy, Psychodynamic theory, Gestalt and Imago therapies and a systemic approach. I work with each and every client in a way that is right for you.

After completing my BSc (Hons) in Psychology, I qualified with the London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy. I also hold a Certificate in Counselling Skills and an HNC in Early Childhood Studies with extensive study in child/parental relationships and attachment. I am committed to on-going personal and professional development and have attended a number of courses and seminars in the areas of Psychology, Counselling and Sexuality. I have also completed specialist training on working with sexual minorities including the LGBT(Q) community.

I have spent time working with charities and organisations specialising in the reintegration of sex offenders into the community and the support of survivors of sexual abuse and rape. I have completed extensive specialist Sex Addiction training with Patrick Carnes and other pioneers in the field and have vast experience of working with Addictions in the Psychosexual field including Sex, Pornography and Love Addiction and co-dependent relationships.

Practice description

I have received awards for Counselling Service of the Year (2021 – London and South East Prestige Awards), Excellence in Psychotherapy Care Services (2019), Excellence in LGBT Aware Therapy (2017) and Psychotherapist of the year in the 2017 Global Health and Pharma Awards.

I offer a safe and secure space to discuss and resolve any of the following, either alone or with your partner-

Relationship issues

Family issues

Communication issues

Sex addiction

Pornography addiction

Love addiction

Co-Dependency issues

Gender confusion

Sexual identity issues

Intimacy issues




Pre-Marital concerns

Sexual issues

Loss of desire

Sexual Dysfunction, for example, Erectile Dysfunction and Vaginismus

Kink Aware Therapy

LGBTQ + Aware Therapy including Pansexual, Polyamory, Bigender, Demisexual, MSM/WSM, Skoliosexual

Asexual/Aromantic identification

Life issues


Financial issues

Issues with children/ step-children

General anxiety and disturbing thoughts


Career issues

Loss of direction in life

Addiction – Behavioural & Substance

Self esteem and body image issues


Developing mindfulness & meditation practice



Decluttering and Organising

What I can help with

Abuse, Addictions, AIDS/HIV, Anxiety, Autism spectrum, Bereavement, Child related issues, Chronic fatigue syndrome / ME, Cultural issues, Depression, Development coaching, Disability, Health related issues, Identity issues, Infertility, Loss, Men's issues, Obsessions, OCD, Personal development, Phobias, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy related issues, Relationships, Self esteem, Self-harm, Service veterans, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Sexuality, Spirituality, Trauma, Women's issues

Types of therapy

Behavioural, CBT, Existential, Family therapy, Gestalt, Humanistic, Integrative, Person centred, Psychoanalytic, Psychodynamic, Relational, Systemic

Clients I work with

Adults, Children, Couples, Families, Groups, Older adults, Organisations, Young people

How I deliver therapy

Long-term face-to-face work, Online counselling, Telephone counselling