Femke Stokes

Femke Stokes

Registered Member MBACP (Accredited)

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Therapist - Oxford

Oxford OX4
Sessions from £65.00


  • Flexible hours available

About me and my therapy practice

As a therapist I offer a warm, reflective approach to think together with you in depth about aspects of yourself and your life which may be troubling you. Psychotherapy and counselling can offer a safe space to unpack emotional difficulties without judgement.

I also offer clinical supervision. 

My orientation is psychodynamic: this kind of therapy works to identify and understand underlying thoughts and feelings, sometimes linked to past experiences and relationships. Processing feelings and making these links together can help to bring about insight and to change deep-seated emotional and relationship difficulties.

I have significant experience working in an NHS Psychotherapy Service with adults, and in student mental health, working in Oxford University Counselling Service. I have also worked in counselling services in secondary schools and, in the voluntary sector, in supporting new parents with the transition to parenthood.

I completed my clinical training, culminating in a Master's in Psychodynamic Practice, at the University of Oxford. I have published my research on aspects of the therapeutic relationship in the British Journal of Guidance and Counselling.

I have a previous career as an academic (with PhD) in English literature, and I have a an interest in connections between the arts, creativity and psychotherapy.

I am an accredited member of BACP.  

My first session

What Happens When You Get in Touch?

The first step to starting  therapy is to send me an email. We can then arrange a mutually convenient first session to see if working together feels a good fit and helpful for you.  My consulting room is in East Oxford. 

What I can help with

Abuse, Anxiety, Bereavement, Child related issues, Cultural issues, Depression, Disability, Health related issues, Identity issues, Infertility, Loss, Obsessions, Phobias, Pregnancy related issues, Relationships, Self esteem, Self-harm, Sexual identity, Sexuality, Spirituality, Stress, Trauma, Work related issues

Types of therapy

Psychoanalytic, Psychodynamic, Relational

Clients I work with

Adults, Older adults

How I deliver therapy

Long-term face-to-face work, Online therapy, Short-term face-to-face work, Telephone therapy, Time-limited