Malgorzata Miernik

For appointments availability and fees, please contact me directly by phone or email.

email: contact@gosiacounselling.com

mobile: 07871424053

Something is weighing on you. You might not be able to name exactly what - only that you have been carrying it for a long time. Stuck. Overwhelmed. Quietly exhausted from holding everything together.

That is often when people reach out.

Working with me is a collaborative process. I won't fix your problems or tell you how to live your life. What I can offer is a safe, unhurried space where you are genuinely listened to - without judgement, without pressure to be anywhere other than where you are. I trust that you know what is right for you.

Together, we might explore the feelings, thoughts and patterns that have shaped your life — where they come from and what might feel different once you understand them more deeply. Change doesn't come from advice. It comes from understanding yourself - not just in the mind, but in the body, in the history.

I work primarily with women who grew up with distant mothers — women who still doubt themselves, try to keep everyone happy, and are exhausted by it. If you are ready to trust yourself more and feel more secure in your relationships, I'd love to work with you. But I welcome anyone who feels ready to explore what is holding them back.

I work in English and Polish. All sessions are online, via Zoom.

If you'd like to know more, I'd be glad to hear from you.

I am a Person-Centred Psychotherapist. I work creatively and intuitively with adults of all ages and backgrounds, drawing on Person-Centred and humanistic approaches alongside Family Constellations — a systemic method that explores how family history and intergenerational patterns shape who we become.

Much of my work is with women affected by early emotional experiences: the patterns that form when love feels conditional, when having needs felt too costly, or when something in the family system was never named. I bring both clinical training and a deep personal interest in this territory.

I hold a PG Diploma in Counselling Skills (Person-Centred) from The Norwich Centre, a Post-Graduate Certificate from the University of East Anglia (UEA), and an MA in Fine Art from Norwich University of the Arts, which informs my creative and embodied approach to therapeutic practice. My counselling training is accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

A first conversation

A free 30 minutes on Zoom. You tell me a little about what is bringing you in, whatever words feel natural. I tell you how I work. We see if it feels right.

Nothing is decided in that conversation. It is simply a beginning.

A beginning

If it feels right, we set a regular weekly 50-minute one-to-one online time.

The first sessions are about getting to know each other.

The work

Patterns become visible. We look at them — not to judge them, but to understand what they have been protecting. Much of this work happens in the emotional body, not just the thinking mind.

We meet the younger parts of you — the ones who learned certain things very early — and we work to strengthen the adult you are now. The one who no longer needs to carry it the way she once did.

An ending, in time

When something has shifted, we end together, on purpose. Endings are part of the work, not its absence.