
Victoria Kirby
Registered Member MBACP (Accredited)
Contact information
Features
Availability
Tuesday - Friday, AM only.
I see people for weekly, face to face therapy.
About me and my therapy practice
I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and an Internal Family Systems therapist. I work with couples and individuals and specialise in sex and relationships therapy.
I love exploring with people the range of challenges they experience concerning sex and relationships. I see clients of all genders and sexual orientations, including LGBTQAI+ clients. I work with clients in diverse sexual and romantic relationships, including those practising consensual non-monogamy and kink.
I will meet you with respect and will provide a space in which you can feel seen, heard and validated. When exploring challenges around sex and relationships, I will help you to understand the impact of early relationships, attachment, and other trauma. I will support you in gently unpacking complex relationship dynamics and lovingly meeting the parts of you that feel hurt or ashamed.
I integrate psychodynamic and person-centred therapy and Internal Family systems.
I have worked in the field of sex and relationships for over 15 years, in service delivery and management roles, in the voluntary and private sectors and in the NHS. I design resources and deliver training using the Internal Family Systems framework to work with issues around sex and sexuality.
My first session
In our assessment, we will explore together what has brought you to therapy and what you hope to get from the process. I will tell you more about how I work and answer any questions you have. We will then reflect on whether it is appropriate for us to work together.
What I can help with
Abuse, AIDS/HIV, Anxiety, Cultural issues, Depression, Identity issues, LGBTQ+ counselling, Relationships, Self esteem, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Sexuality, Stress, Trauma, Vegan allied
Types of therapy
Humanistic, Integrative, Person centred, Psychodynamic
Clients I work with
Adults, Couples
How I deliver therapy
Long-term face-to-face work, Short-term face-to-face work