Violetta Nash

I offer sessions online.

Limited daytime availability on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays (no evenings). Weekly sessions can bring helpful consistency, but I know life doesn't always fit neatly into a fixed slot. Once we've established our work together, we can work around your needs.

Hello, I specialise in trauma, relationships, anxiety and identity, working with individuals and couples. My practice is neurodiversity and LGBTQIA+ affirming. Trauma and relationships came up so often in my work that I chose to focus on them, completing a Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy and BACP accreditation alongside ongoing CPD.

Anxiety and relationship difficulties often sit on top of something older. We can work with both: what's happening now, where it comes from, the patterns that connect them and how you communicate.

I grew up across cultures and moved to the UK about 20 years ago, which shaped how I think about identity and belonging. The roles we play, the templates we're expected to fit and the parts of ourselves we learn to hide take many forms: culture, sexual or gender identity, neurodivergence and masking, family expectations or learning early that some parts of you weren't welcome. If that resonates and you'd like to explore, find and embrace who you are, all of you is welcome here.

No two people or paths are the same, so I shape the work around you. I draw on a range of approaches and together we'll find what fits you, led by your choices and needs.

With fast-changing tech, AI and information overload, other tools have their place, but therapy is different. It is a human-to-human connection, whether we meet in person or online. I notice what is said and what isn't: the pauses, the body language, the subtle shifts in your breathing or how you're feeling. When things feel too much, co-regulation happens in the therapeutic relationship, which research consistently shows is one of the key predictors of whether therapy helps. So finding the right fit is important and that's where an intro 15-minute chat can help.

Whatever brings you here, just come as you are. I'll meet you there, with openness, curiosity and compassion.

Pronouns: she/her. My approach is integrative and I work with adults (18+) and couples, in any kind of relationship.

Fees (50-minute sessions):

Individual counselling: £60

Couples counselling: £90 (or £180 for a 100-minute session)

Single-session therapy: £70 (one focused session, no ongoing commitment)

My training includes, among others: Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy (CPCAB), Certified Clinical Trauma training, couples and sex therapy informed certification training and further training in complex trauma, anxiety, neurodiversity, loss, depression, menopause, LGBTQIA+, self-harm, safeguarding, working with suicide and group therapy facilitation.

I'm in ongoing clinical supervision, enhanced DBS checked, ICO registered and insured.

The first session is charged at my usual fee and is a little different from those that follow. We'll go through my working agreement (contract), which is part of ethical practice and covers confidentiality and practicalities, so we're on the same page. Coming to a first session doesn't commit you to more and the duration of our work is led by you.

To help me understand you better, I'll offer some questions about you, what has brought you here and what you hope to gain. It can feel like "too much too soon", so you don't need to share everything at once. We'll focus on what feels manageable and what you feel ready to share.

Most of all, it's a space for us to get to know each other a little and see if we're a good fit.

I offer sessions online.

Limited daytime availability on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays (no evenings). Weekly sessions can bring helpful consistency, but I know life doesn't always fit neatly into a fixed slot. Once we've established our work together, we can work around your needs.

Hello, I specialise in trauma, relationships, anxiety and identity, working with individuals and couples. My practice is neurodiversity and LGBTQIA+ affirming. Trauma and relationships came up so often in my work that I chose to focus on them, completing a Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy and BACP accreditation alongside ongoing CPD.

Anxiety and relationship difficulties often sit on top of something older. We can work with both: what's happening now, where it comes from, the patterns that connect them and how you communicate.

I grew up across cultures and moved to the UK about 20 years ago, which shaped how I think about identity and belonging. The roles we play, the templates we're expected to fit and the parts of ourselves we learn to hide take many forms: culture, sexual or gender identity, neurodivergence and masking, family expectations or learning early that some parts of you weren't welcome. If that resonates and you'd like to explore, find and embrace who you are, all of you is welcome here.

No two people or paths are the same, so I shape the work around you. I draw on a range of approaches and together we'll find what fits you, led by your choices and needs.

With fast-changing tech, AI and information overload, other tools have their place, but therapy is different. It is a human-to-human connection, whether we meet in person or online. I notice what is said and what isn't: the pauses, the body language, the subtle shifts in your breathing or how you're feeling. When things feel too much, co-regulation happens in the therapeutic relationship, which research consistently shows is one of the key predictors of whether therapy helps. So finding the right fit is important and that's where an intro 15-minute chat can help.

Whatever brings you here, just come as you are. I'll meet you there, with openness, curiosity and compassion.

Pronouns: she/her. My approach is integrative and I work with adults (18+) and couples, in any kind of relationship.

Fees (50-minute sessions):

Individual counselling: £60

Couples counselling: £90 (or £180 for a 100-minute session)

Single-session therapy: £70 (one focused session, no ongoing commitment)

My training includes, among others: Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy (CPCAB), Certified Clinical Trauma training, couples and sex therapy informed certification training and further training in complex trauma, anxiety, neurodiversity, loss, depression, menopause, LGBTQIA+, self-harm, safeguarding, working with suicide and group therapy facilitation.

I'm in ongoing clinical supervision, enhanced DBS checked, ICO registered and insured.

The first session is charged at my usual fee and is a little different from those that follow. We'll go through my working agreement (contract), which is part of ethical practice and covers confidentiality and practicalities, so we're on the same page. Coming to a first session doesn't commit you to more and the duration of our work is led by you.

To help me understand you better, I'll offer some questions about you, what has brought you here and what you hope to gain. It can feel like "too much too soon", so you don't need to share everything at once. We'll focus on what feels manageable and what you feel ready to share.

Most of all, it's a space for us to get to know each other a little and see if we're a good fit.

I offer sessions online and in person at the Tunbridge Wells Counselling Hub, 5 minutes from the train station. The Hub is up a flight of stairs with no lift. If that presents a challenge, online sessions are available.

Limited daytime availability on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays (no evenings). Weekly sessions can bring helpful consistency, but I know life doesn't always fit neatly into a fixed slot. Once we've established our work together, we can work around your needs.

Hello, I specialise in trauma, relationships, anxiety and identity, working with individuals and couples. My practice is neurodiversity and LGBTQIA+ affirming. Trauma and relationships came up so often in my work that I chose to focus on them, completing a Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy and BACP accreditation alongside ongoing CPD.

Anxiety and relationship difficulties often sit on top of something older. We can work with both: what's happening now, where it comes from, the patterns that connect them and how you communicate.

I grew up across cultures and moved to the UK about 20 years ago, which shaped how I think about identity and belonging. The roles we play, the templates we're expected to fit and the parts of ourselves we learn to hide take many forms: culture, sexual or gender identity, neurodivergence and masking, family expectations or learning early that some parts of you weren't welcome. If that resonates and you'd like to explore, find and embrace who you are, all of you is welcome here.

No two people or paths are the same, so I shape the work around you. I draw on a range of approaches and together we'll find what fits you, led by your choices and needs.

With fast-changing tech, AI and information overload, other tools have their place, but therapy is different. It is a human-to-human connection, whether we meet in person or online. I notice what is said and what isn't: the pauses, the body language, the subtle shifts in your breathing or how you're feeling. When things feel too much, co-regulation happens in the therapeutic relationship, which research consistently shows is one of the key predictors of whether therapy helps. So finding the right fit is important and that's where an intro 15-minute chat can help.

Whatever brings you here, just come as you are. I'll meet you there, with openness, curiosity and compassion.

Pronouns: she/her. My approach is integrative and I work with adults (18+) and couples, in any kind of relationship.

Fees (50-minute sessions):

Individual counselling: £60

Couples counselling: £90 (or £180 for a 100-minute session)

Single-session therapy: £70 (one focused session, no ongoing commitment)

My training includes, among others: Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy (CPCAB), Certified Clinical Trauma training, couples and sex therapy informed certification training and further training in complex trauma, anxiety, neurodiversity, loss, depression, menopause, LGBTQIA+, self-harm, safeguarding, working with suicide and group therapy facilitation.

I'm in ongoing clinical supervision, enhanced DBS checked, ICO registered and insured.

The first session is charged at my usual fee and is a little different from those that follow. We'll go through my working agreement (contract), which is part of ethical practice and covers confidentiality and practicalities, so we're on the same page. Coming to a first session doesn't commit you to more and the duration of our work is led by you.

To help me understand you better, I'll offer some questions about you, what has brought you here and what you hope to gain. It can feel like "too much too soon", so you don't need to share everything at once. We'll focus on what feels manageable and what you feel ready to share.

Most of all, it's a space for us to get to know each other a little and see if we're a good fit.

I offer sessions online.

Limited daytime availability on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays (no evenings). Weekly sessions can bring helpful consistency, but I know life doesn't always fit neatly into a fixed slot. Once we've established our work together, we can work around your needs.

Hello, I specialise in trauma, relationships, anxiety and identity, working with individuals and couples. My practice is neurodiversity and LGBTQIA+ affirming. Trauma and relationships came up so often in my work that I chose to focus on them, completing a Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy and BACP accreditation alongside ongoing CPD.

Anxiety and relationship difficulties often sit on top of something older. We can work with both: what's happening now, where it comes from, the patterns that connect them and how you communicate.

I grew up across cultures and moved to the UK about 20 years ago, which shaped how I think about identity and belonging. The roles we play, the templates we're expected to fit and the parts of ourselves we learn to hide take many forms: culture, sexual or gender identity, neurodivergence and masking, family expectations or learning early that some parts of you weren't welcome. If that resonates and you'd like to explore, find and embrace who you are, all of you is welcome here.

No two people or paths are the same, so I shape the work around you. I draw on a range of approaches and together we'll find what fits you, led by your choices and needs.

With fast-changing tech, AI and information overload, other tools have their place, but therapy is different. It is a human-to-human connection, whether we meet in person or online. I notice what is said and what isn't: the pauses, the body language, the subtle shifts in your breathing or how you're feeling. When things feel too much, co-regulation happens in the therapeutic relationship, which research consistently shows is one of the key predictors of whether therapy helps. So finding the right fit is important and that's where an intro 15-minute chat can help.

Whatever brings you here, just come as you are. I'll meet you there, with openness, curiosity and compassion.

Pronouns: she/her. My approach is integrative and I work with adults (18+) and couples, in any kind of relationship.

Fees (50-minute sessions):

Individual counselling: £60

Couples counselling: £90 (or £180 for a 100-minute session)

Single-session therapy: £70 (one focused session, no ongoing commitment)

My training includes, among others: Level 6 Diploma in Trauma Focused Therapy (CPCAB), Certified Clinical Trauma training, couples and sex therapy informed certification training and further training in complex trauma, anxiety, neurodiversity, loss, depression, menopause, LGBTQIA+, self-harm, safeguarding, working with suicide and group therapy facilitation.

I'm in ongoing clinical supervision, enhanced DBS checked, ICO registered and insured.

The first session is charged at my usual fee and is a little different from those that follow. We'll go through my working agreement (contract), which is part of ethical practice and covers confidentiality and practicalities, so we're on the same page. Coming to a first session doesn't commit you to more and the duration of our work is led by you.

To help me understand you better, I'll offer some questions about you, what has brought you here and what you hope to gain. It can feel like "too much too soon", so you don't need to share everything at once. We'll focus on what feels manageable and what you feel ready to share.

Most of all, it's a space for us to get to know each other a little and see if we're a good fit.

I am currently at full capacity and not accepting new clients.

I offer sessions online via zoom and in person at the Tunbridge Wells, just five minutes from the train station. I currently have very limited daytime availability on Wednesdays and Fridays only. I’m unable to offer daytime sessions on other days at present.

My hours are 9am–8pm on weekdays. Weekly sessions can bring helpful consistency, but I know life doesn’t always fit neatly into a fixed slot. Once we’ve established our work together, I can offer flexible scheduling to fit around your needs.

Alongside private counselling, I’m also registered with WPA.

You’re welcome to contact me through this page or via my website to arrange a free, no-obligation 20-minute phone or zoom. It’s a chance to ask questions and get a feel for how I work. My phone and email are dedicated to counselling, confidential, and all emails are encrypted on my end. If I miss your call, I’ll aim to get back to you within two working days.

Therapy with me isn’t about fixing you (that would assume you need fixing!). It’s about meaningful change - processing and untangling what feels heavy. That weight can take many forms: parts of yourself you’ve learned to hide, struggles with identity, relationships that don’t feel safe, trauma, anxiety, low moods, overwhelm or unhealthy patterns that keep repeating.

I’m a qualified integrative counsellor with years of practice and experience, but what matters most is that I’m still a constant learner. Curiosity and a hunger to keep growing mean I’m always reading, training and developing, so I can support my clients in the most effective way I can.

That’s how my specialism took shape: working with anxiety, trauma, identity and relationship issues - with both individuals and couples (in any kind of relationship).

I believe the relationship between counsellor and client is at the heart of therapy. It creates the safety to explore at your own pace, in your own way. Working with me is collaborative - you are always at the centre.

In a world where so much is automated, therapy with me is human-to-human connection: real presence, real curiosity, and real compassion - not scripts or AI.

My practice is inclusive, culturally sensitive, and LGBTQIA+ and neurodiversity-affirming. No two people are the same, so I shape the work around you rather than fitting you into a model. Together we’ll explore what’s holding you back and find ways to manage challenges, while making shifts that feel real and lasting.

It might feel like a big step into the unknown - but just come as you are. I’ll meet you there, with openness, curiosity and compassion. I’ll be led by your choices and your needs. Most of all, you don’t have to face this alone.

Session offerings and rates:

Individual counselling — £60 (50 minutes)

Individual single-session therapy — £70 (50 minutes)

Couple/relationship counselling — £80 (50 minutes)

Student counsellors — £45 (50 minutes)

I regularly undertake training as part of my continuous professional development to ensure I can offer the best support I can to my clients. Over the years, I’ve completed specialist and advanced training in areas including relationships, trauma, anxiety, neurodiversity, loss, self-harm, safeguarding and working with suicide.

Please note that, unfortunately, the Tunbridge Wells Counselling Hub is not wheelchair accessible. However, my practice room in my family home is wheelchair-friendly.

The first session differs slightly from other sessions because we’ll discuss our working agreement/ contract and gather basic information to get us started. Although the duration of counselling is entirely up to you, having an agreement in place is paramount. It is a part of good ethical practice, provides essential details and helps to ensure we are on the same page.

I typically start with an initial assessment, where we look closely at what brought you to counselling now and the nature of your concerns, some background and what you would like to gain from working together. That said, I’m aware that it can feel overwhelming with “too much too soon” to share all that in the first session. Then trust your instincts and we can begin focusing on what prompted you here and present issues. Always remember, I’ll be led by you.

I look forward to hearing from you.

I am currently at full capacity and not accepting new clients.

I currently have very limited daytime availability on Wednesdays and Fridays only. I’m unable to offer daytime sessions on other days at present.

I offer sessions in person online via zoom and at the Tunbridge Wells, just five minutes from the train station.

My hours are 9am–8pm on weekdays. Weekly sessions can bring helpful consistency, but I know life doesn’t always fit neatly into a fixed slot. Once we’ve established our work together, I can offer flexible scheduling to fit around your needs.

Alongside private counselling, I’m also registered with WPA.

You’re welcome to contact me through this page or via my website to arrange a free, no-obligation 20-minute phone or zoom. It’s a chance to ask questions and get a feel for how I work. My phone and email are dedicated to counselling, confidential, and all emails are encrypted on my end. If I miss your call, I’ll aim to get back to you within two working days.

A warm welcome.

Therapy with me isn’t about fixing you (that would assume you need fixing!). It’s about meaningful change - processing and untangling what feels heavy. That weight can take many forms: parts of yourself you’ve learned to hide, struggles with identity, relationships that don’t feel safe, trauma, anxiety, low moods, overwhelm or unhealthy patterns that keep repeating.

I’m a qualified integrative counsellor with years of practice and experience, but what matters most is that I’m still a constant learner. Curiosity and a hunger to keep growing mean I’m always reading, training and developing, so I can support my clients in the most effective way I can.

That’s how my specialism took shape: working with anxiety, trauma, identity and relationship issues - with both individuals and couples (in any kind of relationship).

I believe the relationship between counsellor and client is at the heart of therapy. It creates the safety to explore at your own pace, in your own way. Working with me is collaborative - you are always at the centre.

In a world where so much is automated, therapy with me is human-to-human connection: real presence, real curiosity, and real compassion - not scripts or AI.

My practice is inclusive, culturally sensitive, and LGBTQIA+ and neurodiversity-affirming. No two people are the same, so I shape the work around you rather than fitting you into a model. Together we’ll explore what’s holding you back and find ways to manage challenges, while making shifts that feel real and lasting.

It might feel like a big step into the unknown - but just come as you are. I’ll meet you there, with openness, curiosity and compassion. I’ll be led by your choices and your needs. Most of all, you don’t have to face this alone.

Session offerings and rates:

Individual counselling — £60 (50 minutes)

Individual single-session therapy — £70 (50 minutes)

Couple/relationship counselling — £80 (50 minutes)

Student counsellors — £45 (50 minutes)

I regularly undertake training as part of my continuous professional development to ensure I can offer the best support I can to my clients. Over the years, I’ve completed specialist and advanced training in areas including relationships, trauma, anxiety, neurodiversity, loss, self-harm, safeguarding and working with suicide.

Please note that, unfortunately, the Tunbridge Wells Counselling Hub is not wheelchair accessible. However, my practice room in my family home is wheelchair-friendly.

The first session differs slightly from other sessions because we’ll discuss our working agreement/ contract and gather basic information to get us started. Although the duration of counselling is entirely up to you, having an agreement in place is paramount. It is a part of good ethical practice, provides essential details and helps to ensure we are on the same page.

I typically start with an initial assessment, where we look closely at what brought you to counselling now and the nature of your concerns, some background and what you would like to gain from working together. That said, I’m aware that it can feel overwhelming with “too much too soon” to share all that in the first session. Then trust your instincts and we can begin focusing on what prompted you here and present issues. Always remember, I’ll be led by you.

I look forward to hearing from you.