Lulu Sunnucks

BACP Psychotherapist & COSRT Clinical Sexologist | Individuals, Couples & Relationship Therapy.

I have my private practice in the Cotswolds & Mayfair and I see international clients online.

Welcome. If you're reading this, something in your life or your relationships probably isn't feeling the way you'd like it to. You may be anxious, stuck, grieving, exhausted or caught in a pattern you can't seem to break. Or you may be wondering why intimacy, desire or connection has become difficult. Whatever has brought you here, you don't need to have it worked out before you get in touch.

My approach is relational and pluralistic. I draw on psychodynamic & attachment-based theory and I also use the biopsychosocial model, which looks at the body, the mind and the world around you together. I'm interested in your history, but I'm just as interested in what's happening in your life now and in helping you find change that lasts rather than insight alone.

The Erotic Intelligence Programme

For people who want a more structured, in-depth psychosexual journey, I've developed the Erotic Intelligence Programme. It is a three-stage process for individuals and couples who want to move beyond talking about intimacy and begin to change it:

* Audit: a gentle exploration of the beliefs, sexual scripts and bodily responses that shape how you relate now.

* Transformation: a somatic exploration of pleasure that helps you reconnect mind and body.

* Integration: a practical toolkit so that change lasts in your everyday life.

The programme is offered alongside ongoing therapy or as a stand-alone piece of work. We can talk about which suits you best.

I also work part time within an NHS sexual health clinic. That gives me a grounding in the medical and physical side of sexual wellbeing as well as the psychological. I work to the BACP & COSRT Ethical Frameworks and I'm supervised regularly as part of my commitment to good practice.

The aim of Psychosexual therapy is to help you improve the physical intimacy between you and your partner(s) and to overcome or manage any sexual difficulties you’re having. Whatever your gender, sexual orientation or relationship status, sex therapy can support you to feel more comfortable about getting intimate.

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY

• Consensual non-monogamy
• Specific sexual interests (BDSM, kinks and fetishes)
• Sexual compulsions and pornography issues
• Orgasm problems
• Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Anodyspareunia
• Erection/ejaculation problems
• Low sexual desire, challenges with desire and loss of arousal
• Sexual desire discrepancies
• Pain during sex and penetration difficulties
• Sexual trauma, sexual abuse and assault
• Relationship problems e.g. arguing / affairs / communication
• Sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns
• Questioning and/or exploring sexuality

Psychotherapeutically, my aim is to work with Clients in order to help them develop a deeper understanding and acceptance of themselves. Together, we identify any blind spots you may have and we take action by resetting those frames of reference and patterns of behaviour that are holding you back. 

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOTHERAPY

• Trauma & post-traumatic stress
• Child sexual abuse & childhood adversity
• Depression
• Sexual violence & rape (including grooming gangs, sex trafficking & exploitation)
• Domestic, emotional, financial & psychological abuse (including forced marriage & so called honour-based violence)
• Attachment disorders
• Self-harm & chronic strategies of disconnection
• Low self-confidence & low self-esteem
• Abortion
• Reproductive identity
• Substance misuse
• Coercive control & gaslighting
• Betrayal, affairs & divorce
• Transgenerational trauma & family issues
• Loss & grief
• Shame & anger

Once you contact me, we will arrange a free of charge, 30-minute introductory call to assess your needs and see how I can best help you. 

During our first consultation, we will go through my contract, GDPR, insurance, the ethical framework I am bound by and our confidentiality agreement. We will also complete a short assessment together and I will be able to answer any other questions you may have.  

BACP Psychotherapist & COSRT Clinical Sexologist | Individuals, Couples & Relationship Therapy.

I have my private practice in the Cotswolds & Mayfair and I see international clients online.

Welcome. If you're reading this, something in your life or your relationships probably isn't feeling the way you'd like it to. You may be anxious, stuck, grieving, exhausted or caught in a pattern you can't seem to break. Or you may be wondering why intimacy, desire or connection has become difficult. Whatever has brought you here, you don't need to have it worked out before you get in touch.

My approach is relational and pluralistic. I draw on psychodynamic & attachment-based theory and I also use the biopsychosocial model, which looks at the body, the mind and the world around you together. I'm interested in your history, but I'm just as interested in what's happening in your life now and in helping you find change that lasts rather than insight alone.

The Erotic Intelligence Programme

For people who want a more structured, in-depth psychosexual journey, I've developed the Erotic Intelligence Programme. It is a three-stage process for individuals and couples who want to move beyond talking about intimacy and begin to change it:

* Audit: a gentle exploration of the beliefs, sexual scripts and bodily responses that shape how you relate now.

* Transformation: a somatic exploration of pleasure that helps you reconnect mind and body.

* Integration: a practical toolkit so that change lasts in your everyday life.

The programme is offered alongside ongoing therapy or as a stand-alone piece of work. We can talk about which suits you best.

I also work part time within an NHS sexual health clinic. That gives me a grounding in the medical and physical side of sexual wellbeing as well as the psychological. I work to the BACP & COSRT Ethical Frameworks and I'm supervised regularly as part of my commitment to good practice.

The aim of Psychosexual therapy is to help you improve the physical intimacy between you and your partner(s) and to overcome or manage any sexual difficulties you’re having. Whatever your gender, sexual orientation or relationship status, sex therapy can support you to feel more comfortable about getting intimate.

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY

• Consensual non-monogamy
• Specific sexual interests (BDSM, kinks and fetishes)
• Sexual compulsions and pornography issues
• Orgasm problems
• Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Anodyspareunia
• Erection/ejaculation problems
• Low sexual desire, challenges with desire and loss of arousal
• Sexual desire discrepancies
• Pain during sex and penetration difficulties
• Sexual trauma, sexual abuse and assault
• Relationship problems e.g. arguing / affairs / communication
• Sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns
• Questioning and/or exploring sexuality

Psychotherapeutically, my aim is to work with Clients in order to help them develop a deeper understanding and acceptance of themselves. Together, we identify any blind spots you may have and we take action by resetting those frames of reference and patterns of behaviour that are holding you back. 

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOTHERAPY

• Trauma & post-traumatic stress
• Child sexual abuse & childhood adversity
• Depression
• Sexual violence & rape (including grooming gangs, sex trafficking & exploitation)
• Domestic, emotional, financial & psychological abuse (including forced marriage & so called honour-based violence)
• Attachment disorders
• Self-harm & chronic strategies of disconnection
• Low self-confidence & low self-esteem
• Abortion
• Reproductive identity
• Substance misuse
• Coercive control & gaslighting
• Betrayal, affairs & divorce
• Transgenerational trauma & family issues
• Loss & grief
• Shame & anger

Once you contact me, we will arrange a free of charge, 30-minute introductory call to assess your needs and see how I can best help you. 

During our first consultation, we will go through my contract, GDPR, insurance, the ethical framework I am bound by and our confidentiality agreement. We will also complete a short assessment together and I will be able to answer any other questions you may have.  

BACP Psychotherapist & COSRT Clinical Sexologist | Individuals, Couples & Relationship Therapy.

I have my private practice in the Cotswolds & Mayfair and I see international clients online.

Welcome. If you're reading this, something in your life or your relationships probably isn't feeling the way you'd like it to. You may be anxious, stuck, grieving, exhausted or caught in a pattern you can't seem to break. Or you may be wondering why intimacy, desire or connection has become difficult. Whatever has brought you here, you don't need to have it worked out before you get in touch.

My approach is relational and pluralistic. I draw on psychodynamic & attachment-based theory and I also use the biopsychosocial model, which looks at the body, the mind and the world around you together. I'm interested in your history, but I'm just as interested in what's happening in your life now and in helping you find change that lasts rather than insight alone.

The Erotic Intelligence Programme

For people who want a more structured, in-depth psychosexual journey, I've developed the Erotic Intelligence Programme. It is a three-stage process for individuals and couples who want to move beyond talking about intimacy and begin to change it:

* Audit: a gentle exploration of the beliefs, sexual scripts and bodily responses that shape how you relate now.

* Transformation: a somatic exploration of pleasure that helps you reconnect mind and body.

* Integration: a practical toolkit so that change lasts in your everyday life.

The programme is offered alongside ongoing therapy or as a stand-alone piece of work. We can talk about which suits you best.

I also work part time within an NHS sexual health clinic. That gives me a grounding in the medical and physical side of sexual wellbeing as well as the psychological. I work to the BACP & COSRT Ethical Frameworks and I'm supervised regularly as part of my commitment to good practice.

The aim of Psychosexual & Relationship therapy is to help you improve the physical intimacy between you and your partner(s) and to overcome or manage any sexual difficulties you’re having. Whatever your gender, sexual orientation or relationship status, sex therapy can support you to feel more comfortable about getting intimate.

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY

• Consensual non-monogamy
• Specific sexual interests (BDSM, kinks and fetishes)
• Sexual compulsions and pornography issues
• Orgasm problems
• Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Anodyspareunia
• Erection/ejaculation problems
• Low sexual desire, challenges with desire and loss of arousal
• Sexual desire discrepancies
• Pain during sex and penetration difficulties
• Sexual trauma, sexual abuse and assault
• Relationship problems e.g. arguing / affairs / communication
• Sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns
• Questioning and/or exploring sexuality

Psychotherapeutically, my aim is to work with Clients in order to help them develop a deeper understanding and acceptance of themselves. Together, we identify any blind spots you may have and we take action by resetting those frames of reference and patterns of behaviour that are holding you back.

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOTHERAPY

• Trauma & post-traumatic stress
• Child sexual abuse & childhood adversity
• Depression
• Sexual violence & rape (including grooming gangs, sex trafficking & exploitation)
• Domestic, emotional, financial & psychological abuse (including forced marriage & so called honour-based violence)
• Attachment disorders
• Self-harm & chronic strategies of disconnection
• Low self-confidence & low self-esteem
• Abortion
• Reproductive identity
• Substance misuse
• Coercive control & gaslighting
• Betrayal, affairs & divorce
• Transgenerational trauma & family issues
• Loss & grief
• Shame & anger

Once you contact me, we will arrange a free of charge, 30-minute introductory call to assess your needs and see how I can best help you. 

During our first consultation, we will go through my contract, GDPR, insurance, the ethical framework I am bound by and our confidentiality agreement. We will also complete a short assessment together and I will be able to answer any other questions you may have.  

BACP Psychotherapist & COSRT Clinical Sexologist | Individuals, Couples & Relationship Therapy.

I have my private practice in the Cotswolds & Mayfair and I see international clients online.

Welcome. If you're reading this, something in your life or your relationships probably isn't feeling the way you'd like it to. You may be anxious, stuck, grieving, exhausted or caught in a pattern you can't seem to break. Or you may be wondering why intimacy, desire or connection has become difficult. Whatever has brought you here, you don't need to have it worked out before you get in touch.

My approach is relational and pluralistic. I draw on psychodynamic & attachment-based theory and I also use the biopsychosocial model, which looks at the body, the mind and the world around you together. I'm interested in your history, but I'm just as interested in what's happening in your life now and in helping you find change that lasts rather than insight alone.

The Erotic Intelligence Programme

For people who want a more structured, in-depth psychosexual journey, I've developed the Erotic Intelligence Programme. It is a three-stage process for individuals and couples who want to move beyond talking about intimacy and begin to change it:

* Audit: a gentle exploration of the beliefs, sexual scripts and bodily responses that shape how you relate now.

* Transformation: a somatic exploration of pleasure that helps you reconnect mind and body.

* Integration: a practical toolkit so that change lasts in your everyday life.

The programme is offered alongside ongoing therapy or as a stand-alone piece of work. We can talk about which suits you best.

I also work part time within an NHS sexual health clinic. That gives me a grounding in the medical and physical side of sexual wellbeing as well as the psychological. I work to the BACP & COSRT Ethical Frameworks and I'm supervised regularly as part of my commitment to good practice.

The aim of Psychosexual & Relationship therapy is to help you improve the physical intimacy between you and your partner(s) and to overcome or manage any sexual difficulties you’re having. Whatever your gender, sexual orientation or relationship status, sex therapy can support you to feel more comfortable about getting intimate.

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY

• Consensual non-monogamy
• Specific sexual interests (BDSM, kinks and fetishes)
• Sexual compulsions and pornography issues
• Orgasm problems
• Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Anodyspareunia
• Erection/ejaculation problems
• Low sexual desire, challenges with desire and loss of arousal
• Sexual desire discrepancies
• Pain during sex and penetration difficulties
• Sexual trauma, sexual abuse and assault
• Relationship problems e.g. arguing / affairs / communication
• Sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns
• Questioning and/or exploring sexuality

Psychotherapeutically, my aim is to work with Clients in order to help them develop a deeper understanding and acceptance of themselves. Together, we identify any blind spots you may have and we take action by resetting those frames of reference and patterns of behaviour that are holding you back. 

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOTHERAPY

• Trauma & post-traumatic stress
• Child sexual abuse & childhood adversity
• Depression
• Sexual violence & rape (including grooming gangs, sex trafficking & exploitation)
• Domestic, emotional, financial & psychological abuse (including forced marriage & so called honour-based violence)
• Attachment disorders
• Self-harm & chronic strategies of disconnection
• Low self-confidence & low self-esteem
• Abortion
• Reproductive identity
• Substance misuse
• Coercive control & gaslighting
• Betrayal, affairs & divorce
• Transgenerational trauma & family issues
• Loss & grief
• Shame & anger

Once you contact me, we will arrange a free of charge, 30-minute introductory call to assess your needs and see how I can best help you. 

During our first consultation, we will go through my contract, GDPR, insurance, the ethical framework I am bound by and our confidentiality agreement. We will also complete a short assessment together and I will be able to answer any other questions you may have.  

BACP Psychotherapist & COSRT Clinical Sexologist | Individuals, Couples & Relationship Therapy.

I have my private practice in the Cotswolds & Mayfair and I see international clients online.

Welcome. If you're reading this, something in your life or your relationships probably isn't feeling the way you'd like it to. You may be anxious, stuck, grieving, exhausted or caught in a pattern you can't seem to break. Or you may be wondering why intimacy, desire or connection has become difficult. Whatever has brought you here, you don't need to have it worked out before you get in touch.

My approach is relational and pluralistic. I draw on psychodynamic & attachment-based theory and I also use the biopsychosocial model, which looks at the body, the mind and the world around you together. I'm interested in your history, but I'm just as interested in what's happening in your life now and in helping you find change that lasts rather than insight alone.

The Erotic Intelligence Programme

For people who want a more structured, in-depth psychosexual journey, I've developed the Erotic Intelligence Programme. It is a three-stage process for individuals and couples who want to move beyond talking about intimacy and begin to change it:

* Audit: a gentle exploration of the beliefs, sexual scripts and bodily responses that shape how you relate now.

* Transformation: a somatic exploration of pleasure that helps you reconnect mind and body.

* Integration: a practical toolkit so that change lasts in your everyday life.

The programme is offered alongside ongoing therapy or as a stand-alone piece of work. We can talk about which suits you best.

I also work part time within an NHS sexual health clinic. That gives me a grounding in the medical and physical side of sexual wellbeing as well as the psychological. I work to the BACP & COSRT Ethical Frameworks and I'm supervised regularly as part of my commitment to good practice.

The aim of Psychosexual therapy is to help you improve the physical intimacy between you and your partner(s) and to overcome or manage any sexual difficulties you’re having. Whatever your gender, sexual orientation or relationship status, sex therapy can support you to feel more comfortable about getting intimate.

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY

• Consensual non-monogamy
• Specific sexual interests (BDSM, kinks and fetishes)
• Sexual compulsions and pornography issues
• Orgasm problems
• Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Anodyspareunia
• Erection/ejaculation problems
• Low sexual desire, challenges with desire and loss of arousal
• Sexual desire discrepancies
• Pain during sex and penetration difficulties
• Sexual trauma, sexual abuse and assault
• Relationship problems e.g. arguing / affairs / communication
• Sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns
• Questioning and/or exploring sexuality

Psychotherapeutically, my aim is to work with Clients in order to help them develop a deeper understanding and acceptance of themselves. Together, we identify any blind spots you may have and we take action by resetting those frames of reference and patterns of behaviour that are holding you back. 

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOTHERAPY

• Trauma & post-traumatic stress
• Child sexual abuse & childhood adversity
• Depression
• Sexual violence & rape (including grooming gangs, sex trafficking & exploitation)
• Domestic, emotional, financial & psychological abuse (including forced marriage & so called honour-based violence)
• Attachment disorders
• Self-harm & chronic strategies of disconnection
• Low self-confidence & low self-esteem
• Abortion
• Reproductive identity
• Substance misuse
• Coercive control & gaslighting
• Betrayal, affairs & divorce
• Transgenerational trauma & family issues
• Loss & grief
• Shame & anger

Once you contact me, we will arrange a free of charge, 30-minute introductory call to assess your needs and see how I can best help you. 

During our first consultation, we will go through my contract, GDPR, insurance, the ethical framework I am bound by and our confidentiality agreement. We will also complete a short assessment together and I will be able to answer any other questions you may have.  

BACP Psychotherapist & COSRT Clinical Sexologist | Individuals, Couples & Relationship Therapy. 

I have my private practice in the Cotswolds & Mayfair and I see international clients online.

Welcome. If you're reading this, something in your life or your relationships probably isn't feeling the way you'd like it to. You may be anxious, stuck, grieving, exhausted or caught in a pattern you can't seem to break. Or you may be wondering why intimacy, desire or connection has become difficult. Whatever has brought you here, you don't need to have it worked out before you get in touch. 

My approach is relational and pluralistic. I draw on psychodynamic & attachment-based theory and I also use the biopsychosocial model, which looks at the body, the mind and the world around you together. I'm interested in your history, but I'm just as interested in what's happening in your life now and in helping you find change that lasts rather than insight alone.

The Erotic Intelligence Programme

For people who want a more structured, in-depth psychosexual journey, I've developed the Erotic Intelligence Programme. It is a three-stage process for individuals and couples who want to move beyond talking about intimacy and begin to change it:

* Audit: a gentle exploration of the beliefs, sexual scripts and bodily responses that shape how you relate now.

* Transformation: a somatic exploration of pleasure that helps you reconnect mind and body.

* Integration: a practical toolkit so that change lasts in your everyday life.

The programme is offered alongside ongoing therapy or as a stand-alone piece of work. We can talk about which suits you best.

I also work part time within an NHS sexual health clinic. That gives me a grounding in the medical and physical side of sexual wellbeing as well as the psychological. I work to the BACP & COSRT Ethical Frameworks and I'm supervised regularly as part of my commitment to good practice.

The aim of Psychosexual & Relationship therapy is to help you improve the physical intimacy between you and your partner(s) and to overcome or manage any sexual difficulties you’re having. Whatever your gender, sexual orientation or relationship status, sex therapy can support you to feel more comfortable about getting intimate.

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY

• Consensual non-monogamy
• Specific sexual interests (BDSM, kinks and fetishes)
• Sexual compulsions and pornography issues
• Orgasm problems
• Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Anodyspareunia
• Erection/ejaculation problems
• Low sexual desire, challenges with desire and loss of arousal
• Sexual desire discrepancies
• Pain during sex and penetration difficulties
• Sexual trauma, sexual abuse and assault
• Relationship problems e.g. arguing / affairs / communication
• Sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns
• Questioning and/or exploring sexuality

Psychotherapeutically, my aim is to work with Clients in order to help them develop a deeper understanding and acceptance of themselves. Together, we identify any blind spots you may have and we take action by resetting those frames of reference and patterns of behaviour that are holding you back. 

AREAS OF EXPERTISE - PSYCHOTHERAPY

• Trauma & post-traumatic stress
• Child sexual abuse & childhood adversity
• Depression
• Sexual violence & rape (including grooming gangs, sex trafficking & exploitation)
• Domestic, emotional, financial & psychological abuse (including forced marriage & so called honour-based violence)
• Attachment disorders
• Self-harm & chronic strategies of disconnection
• Low self-confidence & low self-esteem
• Abortion
• Reproductive identity
• Substance misuse
• Coercive control & gaslighting
• Betrayal, affairs & divorce
• Transgenerational trauma & family issues
• Loss & grief
• Shame & anger

Once you contact me, we will arrange a free of charge, 30-minute introductory call to assess your needs and see how I can best help you. 

During our first consultation, we will go through my contract, GDPR, insurance, the ethical framework I am bound by and our confidentiality agreement. We will also complete a short assessment together and I will be able to answer any other questions you may have.