It's been a difficult year and now we're into what feels like a long winter, with its dark mornings, grey skies and lack of sunshine.
Many people described how this can the winter months have an impact on their mental health and wellbeing.
And some of those people will be affected by seasonal affective disorder (SAD), when this seasonal feeling really starts to impact on your life and leaves you feeling depressed.
Our member Rakhi Chand explains how the term SAD may be relevant when seasonal depression has happened for the previous two years.
People typically feel – albeit to differing degrees - low, depressed, demotivated, low on energy, withdrawn and isolated.
It’s something Rakhi says comes up fairly often in the therapy room.
“People seem to be pretty aware of the seasonal differences in how they feel,” adds Rakhi, a therapist based in Leytonstone, London.
“Talking about SAD in counselling has, in my experience, always linked to other difficulties in a person’s life. Exploring some of these issues in counselling tends to address the roots of an individual’s vulnerability and suffering. It can take the edge off the SAD.”
She adds: “If you feel full on depressed rather than ‘low’ in mood then it’s important to see your GP too. They can discuss options with you.”
As well as speaking to a counsellor, there are a range of coping strategies you can use to help with SAD.
Here are Rakhi’s top coping strategies if you are affected by SAD.
- Exposure to natural light – a lightbox can be helpful for this.
- Eating well - physical and mental health are closely linked, so this is why numbers 3 and 4 are also important!
- Sleeping well - and enough - and at night.
- Being aware of what you enjoy, and doing those things – small or big, and assuming they aren’t self-destructive e.g. binge drinking.
- Being aware of and not doing (too much) of what you don’t enjoy.
- Being able to say ‘no’ when needed. This is more complex and may well require counselling help. Not being able to say no - to friends, family, colleagues for example - means that we are probably prioritising something or someone else's needs over our own. If we do this too much, we become alienated from ourselves. This can be a recipe for depression and anxiety, and susceptibility to SAD, I would argue.
- Taking time out to breathe and meditate is good for our mental health. For example, using apps like Headspace and Calm. This is likely to improve resilience against SAD.
If you'd like to speak to a counsellor or psychotherapist about SAD visit our Therapist directory.
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