J Sanjay Kumar

J Sanjay Kumar

Registered Member MBACP

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Therapist - London

London EC1R
Sessions from £80.00


  • Flexible hours available
  • Concessionary rates


I'm currently only working online.

About me and my therapy practice

I identify as Queer and my training is in Integrative Psychotherapy from The School of Psychotherapy and Counselling, Regents University, London. Integrating mainly Western Jungian and Existential Phenomenology with Eastern healing practices of Mindfulness and Guided Meditation working in close association with body therapists offering a bespoke experience suited to each client. I offer individual psychotherapy to adults only. I also run workshops on Intimacy, Self awareness, Gender and ChemSex management. 

I also was have a seminary training which brings a pastoral, spiritual element to my work if the client requests it. I use Gestalt Therapy tools in my work, Dialectic Behavioural Therapy techniques, Transactional Analysis and many other tools I've picked up over the two decades of my professional experience.

I work with intersectionality as I am too an Indian in the UK, out as a gay man from a conservative evangelical Christian upbringing who has been living with HIV since 2004. This enables me to bring much empathy and experience to my intuition in the therapy room. 

I really do believe and know from experience not just in my private practice but also from my own therapy that insight, catharsis, growth, healing and personal development happens not only in the space created between a willing therapist and a willing client but also in how the space is used in-between sessions. These happen in the safety within which words are spoken and heard, emotions expressed and held but also in the silence shared. 

Practice description


Existential Phenomenology

Transactional Analysis

Gestalt Practice


Mindfulness practice

Guided Meditations


Time-limited, Solution focused

Open ended and Explorative

Dialectical Behavioural Therapy

Integrative Model of working using all the above and more to facilitate a bespoke journey for my clients.

I've worked in the Corporate sector as well as with NGO's and Sexuality, Gender and Relationship Minority Charities and been in private practice since 2009. 

I work internationally running workshops for Gay/Bi/MSM in the UK, EU, USA and India.

Currently working only online.

My first session

First session will include:

Establishing presenting realities

Exploring expectations of self, therapist and therapy

Exploring Risk

Emergency Contact information.

Setting therapy boundaries of confidentiality, time, venue, frequency and fees

Payment and cancellation policy

What I can help with

Abuse, Anger management, Anxiety, Bereavement, Cultural issues, Depression, Identity issues, Infertility, Loss, Men's issues, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy related issues, Redundancy, Relationships, Self esteem, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Sexuality, Spirituality, Stress, Trauma, Women's issues, Work related issues

Types of therapy

Behavioural, Brief therapy, Cognitive, Cognitive analytic therapy, Emotionally focused therapy, Existential, Gestalt, Humanistic, Integrative, Jungian, Person centred, Phenomenological, Psychodynamic, Relational, Solution focused brief therapy, Transactional analysis, Transpersonal

Clients I work with

Adults, EAP, Groups, Organisations, Trainees, Young people

How I deliver therapy

Long-term face-to-face work, Online therapy, Short-term face-to-face work, Telephone therapy, Time-limited

Languages spoken

English, Hindi, Tamil, Urdu