Celia Urbach

What's Possible?

Our intimate relationships touch us in our most vulnerable places, which is why they can become so difficult. Ironically, it is because of this, that they hold such possibilities for growth. They offer us a unique opportunity to learn about ourselves – our early wounds, our family and ancestral patterns - and how these are being replayed. Through authentic communication, we can learn to use our relationship difficulties as opportunities to awaken and bring forth our human qualities of awareness, compassion, humour and wisdom.

What I Offer

Most likely you are at a transition point, which needs to be fully acknowledged and attended to. Although this is a painful transition, it also contains the possibility of a new beginning.

I introduce you to new ways of listening and communicating which enable you to hear each other and be heard. I help you to look at the history of your relationship. The hopes and dreams you brought to it - the disappointments and losses.

The therapy is about disentangling from one another, recognizing, negotiating, and cherishing your differences, letting go of the expectation that the other be as you want them to be, fostering an authentic intimacy - and so enabling you to come to a place of separateness in your individual identities. From here, a true union with your partner becomes possible.

I welcome all couples regardless of differences including gender, ethnicity or sexual orientation. I also welcome non monogamous pairings and thrupples.

The first session is an introductory session charged at a nominal fee £20.  This is an opportunity for us to meet each other and to establish whether we might be a good fit.  Usually we would decide at the end of the session, whether to go forward together or not.