Victoria Kirby

Victoria Kirby

Registered Member MBACP (Accredited)

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Therapist - London

London SE15
Sessions from £80.00



Tuesday - Friday, AM only 

About me and my therapy practice

I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and an Internal Family Systems and EMDR therapist. I work with couples and individuals and specialise in sex and relationships therapy.

I love exploring with people the range of challenges they experience concerning sex and relationships. I see clients of all genders and sexual orientations, including LGBTQAI+ and queer-identifying clients. I work with clients in diverse sexual and romantic relationships, including those practising consensual non-monogamy and kink.

I will meet you with respect and will provide a space in which you can feel seen, heard and validated. When exploring challenges around sex and relationships, I will help you to understand the impact of early relationships, attachment, and other trauma. I will support you in gently unpicking complex relationship dynamics and lovingly meeting the parts of you that feel hurt or ashamed.

I integrate psychodynamic and person-centred therapy as well as Internal Family systems and EMDR.

I have worked in the field of sex and relationships for over 15 years, in service delivery and management roles, in the voluntary and private sectors and in the NHS. I design resources and deliver training using the Internal Family Systems framework to work with issues around sex and sexuality. 

My first session

I charge a reduced rate for assessment sessions. In our assessment, we will explore together what has brought you to therapy and what you hope to get from the process. I will tell you more about how I work and answer any questions you have. We will then reflect on whether it is appropriate for us to work together. 

What I can help with

Abuse, AIDS/HIV, Anxiety, Cultural issues, Depression, Identity issues, LGBTQ+ counselling, Relationships, Self esteem, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Sexuality, Stress, Trauma, Vegan allied

Types of therapy

EMDR, Humanistic, Integrative, Person centred, Psychodynamic

Clients I work with

Adults, Couples

How I deliver therapy

Long-term face-to-face work, Short-term face-to-face work