Jane Wilkin

As a specialist relationship therapist I work with couples and individuals who are experiencing issues, want their relationships to be better, or simply want to be in a relationship.

Relationships are hard work! We hope they get easier as we get older, often we just put off sorting out issues until they feel too big to tackle. We don't truly enjoy our relationship. Sometimes a crisis occurs and we wonder "how did it get to this?"

My role is to help you reconnect to the joy that you once found in each other. I provide a safe neutral space where you can discuss the issues that are impacting on your ability to appreciate each other. Figuring out what went wrong, so you don't have to go through it again. Enabling you to regain your appreciation for your strengths and differences. Rebalancing the conflicts which are causing you to be stuck, and working with you to find new ways of doing things.

What if my partner won't come? It only takes one to be different for the relationship to change. I usually recommend both come, however sometimes working with one person can be a more productive way to work.

What if I'm not in a relationship? I will work with you to understand what is preventing you from being in a relationship, and support you moving forward.

What I can help with

Anxiety, Bereavement, Loss, Depression, Personal development, Career coaching, Life coaching, Leadership coaching, Executive coaching, Asperger syndrome, Spirituality, Cultural issues, Relationships, Redundancy, Stress, Anger management, Work related issues

Types of therapy

CBT, Eclectic, Integrative, Neuro linguistic programming, Person centred, Psychodynamic, Relational, Solution focused brief therapy, Systemic

Clients I work with

Adults, Couples, EAP

How I deliver therapy

Long-term face-to-face work, Online counselling, Short-term face-to-face work, Telephone counselling, Time-limited